You’re misusing “whataboutism”, you should drop that from your rotation.
We’re not limited to one point of discussion here, etc.
Primus~ “He’s a murderer, how dare he murder Bob!”
Secundus~ “That’s because Bob killed his entire family!”
Primus~ “Whataboutism!”
Secundus~ “You win the debate, I am wrong, I’m sorry.”
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whataboutism
I know you’ve heard the term many times and are excited to join in… but don’t.
This is goofy. Not one of us can wear whatever we want in USA (and many other countries). All sorts of rules on dress.
Dress codes for restaurants (jackets and ties required)… dress codes for schools (uniforms)… dress codes for jobs (uniforms)… dress codes for gas stations (no shirts, no shoes, no service)… dress codes for banks (can’t cover your face or wear sunglasses)…
This is a false issue, used to inflame the dumbest among us. Sadly, it still works.